A MESSAGE FOR PETS BEING CALLED HOME

When we share our lives with an animal the hardest moment is when it's time to say good bye and let him or her transition back to the greater dimensions of life. This months in-the-moment message is for pets who are getting ready to cross the rainbow bridge. One thing that can ease the transition to spirit for your pet is your being at peace with his or leaving. Even if peace is not available you to because the pain of loss can be so overwhelming, a simple understanding from you that its his or her time can actually help a pet let go and release his or her body.

I understand that this is a conversation you don't want to have. When I had this conversation two years ago with my best friend Griffin, I can remember looking at him laying on his bed asking me to let him go and saying this is not it, this can not be THAT moment. But it was, and when I relinquished to that fact he and I were able to be present to one another his last day in a way I will always be grateful for.

I'm not going to give you the message or the words so to speak like I have for every other in-the-moemnt message, rather the essence of the message. That essence is, that you understand it's time for him or her to release the pain or experience of the physical body, that it's ok to go. Weather your animal companion is leaving on his/her own or your are supporting him/her in transitioning voicing that it's ok for them to go now is a gift and will immediately shift the energy around the experience for you both. I have worked with animals who leave quickly upon hearing these words, I have seen animals perk up from the relief of these words just enough to share one more day or one more romp with their person. What ever the circumstance it seems to always be what was meant to be.  

Sometimes the message you don't want to send is the message that is most needed. If you would like guidance in supporting your animal through transition, you can CLICK HERE to book a transiting session with me.

For more detailed information on my in-the-moment message sending techniques and supporting animals in transition check out my book Beyond Companionship: Connecting with Kindred Souls of Animal Companions (click title for purchase link)

MESSAGES FOR PETS WHO DON'T LIKE LOUD NOISES OUTSIDE

My In-The-Moment Message for July is all about supporting pets through the noises 4th celebrations but will help anyone who's pet does not like outside loud noise like thunder as well. I recently learned that more pets go missing on the 4th of July than any other day of the year. It's important to be prepared and take precautions to support your pet no matter what their level of anxiousness around the noisy 4th celebration is. Preparedness  might mean making quieter plans, having herbal calming treats/pills, a thunder shirt, etc.and should always include communication.

While I understand some anxieties are so bad they can not be fixed with a few messages, communication between you and your is always a win because it teaches your animal companion to look to you for information. No matter what your animals level of anxiety is around loud noises like storms or fireworks here are my in-the-moment messages for July will support you. 

The first message comes before the action. You all want to send a preliminary message to let you companion know what's up. You might say, "I know you don't like loud noise I want you to know its going to be loud out side tonight at dark for a few hours." Or if you have a more specific time, get as specific as you can. Send a reminder message at the time for the loud event gets closer. If you want you can add on a second message like. "I want you to know your safe, or I have set up a safe hiding space for you, or I'm going to be giving you extra treats to help you stay as calm as you can." What ever the case may be just give a short explanation. 

During the "action" you may want to send reassuring messages about how much longer the noise is expected to continue. No matter, what the level of upset is do this. Even if your dog isn't very upset at all. Because again, this is an opportunity to teach your companion to look to you for information and learn to trust what you say. If your dog is having a sever reaction do the best you can to manage in all the ways you know how, and include these communications. Your pet will here you especially if you begin the preliminary messaging before they get slip in to a fight or flight response where they are reacting and not able to consciously connect with you.

When communicating during a stressful time for your pet it is best to be very matter of fact. Being harsh or being overly comforting is seen from your animal's point of view as you being weak or not in control. They can easily become confuse about who if anyone around is able to lead them through the noisy/scary event. Keep your messages during this time short and to the point and your messages will be revived loud and clear every time.  

Happy Chatting! 

MAKING YOUR PET FEEL AT HOME

Opening your heart to a new animal friend is exciting and stressful for both you and your new companion. This months in the moment message is a simple one. But the positive impact of this message on your new friend will be noticeably felt. 

Last month our in-the-moment message was targeted for animal companions who are moving. The techniques shared are ones I uses in sessions with profound success and if you CLICK HERE you can check it out. 

 For our April in-the-moment message we are going one step further and adding a short, simple message to support rescued or re-homed animals when welcoming them into a new home or more specifically their forever home. 

Your April message:  This is a place where you are welcomed and loved. I/we invite you to get comfortable with the surroundings because this is your forever home. 

This message is the perfect add-on to last months message work for animals who are moving  to welcome a rescued or re-homed animal into your home. Sometimes the most simple clear message like, this is your forever home, spoken out loud with heart is exactly what is needed to be heard for an animal friend to open up their heart and begin to trust again. This months message will ease anxiety, tensions, make your intentions clear and give you a strong foundation for trust to build on. 

Side Note: This ones for you Faith (You know who you are goddess of rescue.) and anyone who fosters/rescues in a situation where your home is not the last stop for your furry, feathered or scaly friend. You can send a similar message of intention letting the animal in your care know they are in a safe home where they are welcomed and loved and you are going to care for them and learn all you can about about them so that you can help him/her find them a forever family. It's also kind to let them know via in-the-moment verb an message how the search is going. Example; A family is coming to visit with you today. I'm taking to meet a new friend today. I heard you will going to your new home in a week (then give reminder updates) 


*bonus*
This should almost be its own column. It is a message I use in session frequently i.e. almost every session I'm focusing on trust building. Bonus Animal Communication In-The-Momnt Message: You are safe here. I take my role as your caretaker very seriously. I would never put you in a situation that would purposely hurt or harm you. 


Happy Chatting!

ANIMAL COMMUNICATIONS FOR MOVING WIHT A PET

Every Post I will be writing about specific messages to help you enhance your relationship and verbal communication with your animal friends. For more detailed information on my in-the-moment messages ending techniques check out the Pause & Connect Point on page 37 of my book Beyond Companionship: Connecting with Kindred Souls of Animal Companions (click title for purchase link)

Last month you started the verbal conversion between you and your companion with a simple message of affection and care. Lets expand the conversation from whats going on between you and your pet to whats going on in your life.

This month your in-the-moment message for your animal companion will be a heads up on the going ons in your home. Don't overthink this, keep it simple sweetie. If you are communicating with a house pet you can give him or her specifics about when you are coming home if leaving the house. I would even go as far as telling your companion where you are going.  I have seen these types of messages go far in helping pets who are a little anxious around their persons coming and goings.

If you are communicating with a barn/stable friend you might want to communicate your visiting schedule for the week, letting him or her know when s/he can expect you.  The trick to this is, sticking to what you have said and if your going to change your plans do a little distant communication to give your animal friend(s) a heads up. 

Bonus*
Three step distant message sending technique:
1- Take a deep cleansing breath.
2- Picture your animal as if they are sitting right in front of you, I always used to imagine my favorite photo of Griffin when I did this.
3-Send your message
Yup, it's that simple!

Happy Chatting!

50 REASONS TO CALL AN ANIMAL COMMUNICATOR

 

50 REASONS 

TO CALL AN ANIMAL COMMUNICATOR

1.  To express Love.

 2.  You want to be a more conscious companion to your animal friends.

 3.  Your companion has crossed over and you want to connect with him/her.  

 4.  To stop your cat from peeing on your head. (Yes, this happens.)

 5.  Find out if your current companion wants you to bring home a friend for him/her.

 6.  To receive love.

 7.  To enhance your animal companions training program.

 8.  You want to know your horse's opinion on his/her tack.

 9.  To say goodbye.

10.  You rescued an animal and want him or her to know s/he is welcome and loved.

11.  Your animal companion is smarter than you and you want to up your game.

12.  To find out why your cat wants to sleep on your head, because you are sure your

        snoring is not that bad.

13.  To keep the peace amongst the animals in your house.

14.  You want to negotiate better behavior.

15.  You're fascinated by animal communication and want to know more!

16.  To find out why your dog is winking at you.

17.  To find out why your dog is winking at your neighbor.

18.  You are sitting on your horse and s/he isn’t moving.

19.  Something is off with your animal companion and you need support finding

        out what’s going on.

20.  To enrich the time you share with your complain.

21.  To book a restorative energy session

22.  To see if the companion you're considering is a good fit for you and your home.

23.  To discuss your travel plans with your animal companion.

24.  You are an equine competitor and want a competitive edge.

25.  You want to interact with your animal companion in a way that honors him/her.

 26.  Explain to your showmanship horse that crossing his/her legs as the judge

        approaches does not make him/her look “cool”.

27.  To thank your animal companion for his/her presence in your life.

28.  You need to explain that porcupines are not play toys.

29.  Your animal companion is staring at you, always staring.

30.  Your companion is anxious and want to send messages to ease that anxiousness.

31.  To book a workshop or event in your home or at your barn.

32.  You rescued your companion and you want to gain insight into his/her life

         experience before you met.

33.  Your companion is ill and you want to his/her thoughts on treatment options.  

34.  To ask you dog to stop chewing on the woodwork in your house.

35.  To thank your dog for no longer chewing on the woodwork in your house.

36.  To find out if there's anything your animal companion wants or needs.

37.  To enhance your animal companions wellness program.

38.  To stop your cat from pushing other cats off the cay tree like s/he is king of the

        mountain.

39.  Everyone else is doing it.

40.  You want to cultivate a deeper level of connectivity with the animals in your life.  

41.  To buy a gift certificate for a friend.

42.  You and your animal companion just found each other and you want to start of on

        the right foot.

43.  To gain ease and acceptance from your companion in training situations.

44.  Your moving and you want to prepare your animal companion.

45.  To find out where your dog has hidden your car keys.

46.  To book a soul pathways session and explore your companions soul journey.

47.  Your horse is away at the trainers and you want to ask him/her how it is going.     

48.  You just met an animal and you are sure you have met before in this life and you

        want confirmation.

49.  You just want to make sure your animal companion is happy.

50.  Don't call if your dog eats poop because I will just have to tell you how much he

          likes it!

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